Saturday, October 02, 2010

Mom and Dad in HK

Parents were here for a short trip 19th-21st Sept to celebrate my birthday with me. We had roast goose, at Tsuen Wan, which was too oily, and way too far. Oops, meat overload then.

Back at my place, the next morning was porridge at the trusty Law Fu Kee, which parents liked. Then off shopping and sightseeing around Tsim Sa Tsui.

Dad said HK has a poor standard of living, small homes, bad air... arranged a land tour of the New Territories the next day. We saw a temple which housed three major religions: Confucianism, Taoism and Buddhism in HK.

Noteable was the Hakka Village out around Fanling. Saw an old woman walking with bound feet through the narrow alleyways, almost making us feel claustrophobic. Our angmoh tour guide said, in the past, the tiles on the top the the houses served as a means of identification to guide the villages to their homes. But right now, most of the houses are left vacant as the owners' children have all moved to U.K to work/live, so no one bothers to look after it. Such a pity.

I like the Tai Mo Shan, which is the tallest mountain in HK. Great breeze. Pity the sky was filled with smog from China of course, so we could not make out the views of the harbour and the distant areas.

We also visited the Bride's Pool (which is said to be very haunted because a bride fell and drowned inside on her rainy wedding day), had a great view of eagrets (the birds that resemble white cranes) at the Plover Cove Reservior (so much algae, yucks, but spot the Eagrets!), and Sam Mun Tsai Fishing Village in Taipo. (See below the below) I think she (old tour guide) said people live on these boats and cast nets for fishing.

After this, we three headed into Shenzhen from Shatin and then, to our horrow, we got booked by the MTR inspector for travelling first class on the train, but not upgrading our MTR cards. He kept pointing to the HKD$500 fine. Well, my defence was that I thought I had to tap after we alighted, just like how airport express works, and it was our first time stepping into first class. In the end, we were let off with a warning letter for our ignorance.

At Queen's Spa, the legendary place to go for massage in Shenzhen, we relaxed. I think dad liked his pedicure & Chinese style body masssage. Below is a picture of his foot, and he managed to fall asleep while he was being cleaned up. Mom did a body scrub & massage.

The last day was pretty simple, had lunch with Shaune at Tsui Hang Chun and boy, I think we ate a lot. BBQ meats + Dim Sum + Dessert. After a quick walk around Causeway Bay, I dropped parents off at the airport before heading to Stats class. I think I missed their presence so much, that I could not stop tearing on the airport express back.

In the end, their flight got delayed by 2 hours (can't imagine as they were on SQ, but parents finally got back home safe and sound. :)

Thursday, September 23, 2010

Cee Lo Green's New Song

Some insight into what guys think after a breakup....great song and great MTV. I wonder what is means to really forgive.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pc0mxOXbWIU

Fuck You

(Chorus)
I see you driving 'round town
With the girl i love and i'm like,
Fuck you!
Oo, oo, ooo
I guess the change in my pocket
Wasn't enough i'm like,
Fuck you!
And fuck her too!
I said, if i was richer, i'd still be with ya
Ha, now ain't that some shit? (ain't that some shit?)
And although there's pain in my chest
I still wish you the best with a...
Fuck you!
Oo, oo, ooo

Yeah i'm sorry, i can't afford a ferrari,
But that don't mean i can't get you there.
I guess he's an xbox and i'm more atari,
But the way you play your game ain't fair.

I pity the fool that falls in love with you
(oh shit she's a gold digger)
Well
(just thought you should know nigga)
Ooooooh
I've got some news for you
Yeah go run and tell your little boyfriend

(chorus)

Now i know, that i had to borrow,
Beg and steal and lie and cheat.
Trying to keep ya, trying to please ya.'
Cause being in love with you ass ain't cheap.
I pity the fool that falls in love with you
(oh shit she's a gold digger)
Well
(just thought you should know nigga)
Ooooooh
I've got some news for you
Yeah go run and tell your little boyfriend

(chorus)

Now baby, baby, baby, why d'you wanna wanna hurt me so bad?
(so bad, so bad, so bad)
I tried to tell my mamma but she told me"this is one for your dad"
(your dad, your dad, your dad)
Uh! Whhhy? Uh! Whhhy? Uh!
Whhhy lady? Oh! I love you oh!
I still love you. Oooh!

(chorus)

Sunday, April 25, 2010

Empire State of Mind

http://http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=842dSvtqZxU
It reminded me of what big dreams I should be pursuing.

Ooohh New York x2

Grew up in a town that is famous as the place of movie scenes
Noise is always loud, there are sirens all around and the streets are mean
If I can make it here, I can make it anywhere, that's what they say
Seeing my face in lights or my name in marquees found down on Broadway

Even if it ain’t all it seems, I got a pocketful of dreams
Baby, I'm from New York
Concrete jungle where dreams are made of
There's nothing you can't do
Now you're in New York
These streets will make you feel brand new
Big lights will inspire you
Let's hear it for New York, New York, New Yoooork!

On the avenue, there ain't never a curfew, ladies work so hard
Such a melting pot, on the corner selling rock, preachers pray to God
Hail a gypsy cab, takes me down from Harlem to the Brooklyn Bridge
Some will sleep tonight with a hunger for more than an empty fridge

I'm gonna make it by any means, I got a pocketful of dreams
Baby, I'm from New York
Concrete jungle where dreams are made of
There's nothing you can't do
Now you're in New York
These streets will make you feel brand new
Big lights will inspire you
Let's hear it for New York, New York, New Yoooork!

One hand in the air for the big city,
Street lights, big dreams all looking pretty
No place in the world that can compare
Put your lighters in the air, everybody say yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah

In New York
Concrete jungle where dreams are made of
There's nothing you can't do
Now you're in New York
These streets will make you feel brand new
Big lights will inspire you
Let's hear it for New York, New York, New Yoooork!

Monday, April 19, 2010

10 Things that Make Me Happy

1. Relaxing and waking up late on the weekends with NO agenda for the day!
2. Cooking and baking for friends that I love - more so when it is upon request!
3. Discovering hidden boutiques/shops as I walk down the side streets
4. Having an outdoor BBQ with good company, booze and most of all home-marinated meats!
5. Emails, SMSes, MSNs and hand written letters from dear friends from far away and from home
6. When I hear my mommy's and daddy's voice - more so at the end of the day when I am unwinding and thinking of home in SG
7. Being in HK where not fortnight goes by when I look back and appreciate the beauty, bustling activity and , wonderful vibe that is HK
8. Cuddling and watching a home movie with Josh when it is raining outside
9. Leaving my house with a backpack and a train ticket - the feeling of anticipation, discovery of the unknown, cut out from my comfort zone to learn about other cultures and their way of life!
10. Sitting by the beach, hearing the crashing waves, smelling the salty air, with sand in my toes....

Friday, January 08, 2010

Fooled by Randomness

I had just finished this book - Fooled by Randomness after I bought it in late 2008. Took me a year? For those who remember - i always enjoy my reads in bite sized portions.

It is about a trader using stories and his own theories (and others) to explain how people, whether we know it or not, no matter how rational we are, can get fooled by randomness. Why - because we are humans and are flawed where emotions come into play. So luck vs skills and market performance, behavioral science, noise, probability all come into play in the event of an outcome. But what part of luck, what park of skill - it the subject of his treatise. Best summarized using a Greek legislator, Solon's theory of all things being equal in the long run.... and also that it does not matter how freequently something succeeds if failure is too costly to bear.

He got me interested in probability. And it is more a science than an art. He reckons Mathematicians compute but not understand Maths and apply it in the real world. That made me think twice if I should study Maths, afterall, the curx of being a trader is the ability to know what people want, and the ability to take risks. I take small calculated risk, which is something I will strive to change this year. I would like to take greater calculated risks and not be tied to my previous thoughts. It is acceptable to do things contrary to what I have said of done before. Like George Soros. Risk sometimes pays off.

He made me question the fundamentals of "Financial Engineering" and "Markowitz theory" - as what is financial engineering and it's use in the world - apart from complicated formules to calculate future risk - Can anyone compute future risk? Are they all just moralizers? Can we just rely on formulaes to make decisions - but we live in a world ruled by human emotions.

Finance has become a greedy profession. I see button pushers, data monkeys, people driven by the allure of glamour and excessive payouts. Surely, there is another industry requiring similar skill but with better payoffs, will the excessive payouts of the banking still remain glittery in 30 years time? Is there another profession I see myself in with lower barriers of entry?

He brought up the case of O.J Simpson and without being too certain (a skill to give leeway for oneself), the odds of him not being the killer is one in a trillion trillon given of his DNA * husband of the desceased. If lawyers and the jury understood probability....

Over to the next book now!

Saturday, November 21, 2009

Paula Getting Married

I had never known that wedding planning was such a massive task.

Visiting the Parents
It can be a very simple affair with a lot of jewellery
You get more angpaos than you do during CNY
Observing the customs (ala red umbrellas, door openers, and sequencing) is important

Wedding Dinner
Table seating at wedding dinners can go wrong and cause other table numbers to go wrong too.
Everyone will look for you at a wedding.
You have to talk a lot.
You will not have time to eat.

That aside, the bride and groom had made about 350 people happy yesterday. From the early attendance at the solemnisation to dressing up and taking a day off on Friday from work to help. It was one massive party! It was so joyous and beautiful!

Seeing the happy reunion family and friends of parents made my heart sing, so did endless trains of smiles that lined the ballroom entrance as people streamed in and out. I especially enjoyed the cocktail, very grown-up, very posh and well setup. Shang is the best!

It would now be US instead of I,
She would not have to stay with mom and dad, but with in-laws,
It is a new chapter with the man she had been with for more than 10 years, I am happy for her.

Nothing will be changed - people just move where they live, but their roots will always be where their heart belongs.

Sunday, September 13, 2009

Grand Hyatt in Beijing

I tried to be cheap. I chose to fly Air China over Dragonair. It was a small jet, and an airport bus had to drive 10 mins before we reached the tiny airplane. It was better than i thought, and arrived in Beijing without any hiccups.

I tried to be adventurous. I forgot 1st October is Beijing's indepedence day, and 60th birthday. So from Beijing Intl Airport, instead of the usual taxi routine, i decided to take the Airport Express to 东直门,changed to Line 2 to 建国门。Ideally I should have alighted at 王府井 (which I found out after a long walk), but I listened to the guy at the train station and alighted at 天安门东。So braving the tourist crowds at Tiananmen amidst tight security (the roads were cordoned off, so no access to taxis) i walked one train stop to arrive at 东方广场。It looks like a Singaporean mall, marked by Bread Talk and Crystal Jade.

Finally reached Grand Hyatt. Glad to be indoors again, and glad to hear my mummy's voice, i drifted to sleep. I made a reservation for 大董restaurant. Famed for its fusion style food, and non oily Peking Duck, I had to visit this place. Appetizer: Duck soup in orange skin, Crab & Egg Dish. For the mains I had stewed beef in goose live sauce and peking duck. Dessert: Fruits. It costs around HKD400 for that. Pretty reasonable, great service and ambience.

I was absolutely stuffed, so I took at 15 minute walk and visited the gym and pool at Hyatt. The pool's architecture was beautiful. Open from 6-11pm. Gym is open 24 hours. I shall endeavour to run tomorrow morning!

The two days ahead look to be interesting. I hope to wake up early tomorrow at 6.30am for a run, then head back by 7.30am to pack and have breakfast till 8.30am. there after try to firm up the necessary appointments for the next two days.

Tmr's meetings:
Leave at 9.30am - for 10am meeting
Leave at 11am for 12pm - 12.30noon lunch
Leave at 2pm for 3pm meeting
Leave 4pm for 4.30pm meeting
- End of Day -